Many of us carry problems and it is clear to see the pain and suffering some of us endure through life due to earlier experiences. A lot of this is repeated through our lives and a pattern emerges. Constant relationship problems where we can not commit or let anyone close.  We may stay in the same unhappy relationship because we want to feel loved or maybe we don’t feel strong enough to be on our own.  Sound familiar?                                                                                                                                      

Then we see a doctor. He gives us drugs and the number of the local counsellor. Next we experience depression and our weight begins to change. Then it is our confidence and before you know it, our life is not worth living so we go back to the doctors for more drugs and so on……  Then it goes a little further and we start to affect others including our children, pushing them away and not giving them the attention they need. “Life has never been the same since my dad died” we remind ourselves. The next thing the children have a complex saying “mum does not love me anymore” and so the cycle happens again, but hold on a minute, where did all of this start from?   And this is the focus of regression therapy.                                      

“It started at the age of 5 when I was sexually abused by my step father when mum was at work” the client was able to realize after regression therapy.  The memories were not only painful but horrific and the events were revealed and explored with sensitivity, compassion and confidentiality. The client was able to transform her memories and come to an understanding of what happened to her many years previously. Since the sessions she stopped the counselling, came off the drugs and built her trust up towards men. Better still her relationship with her children is now solid and she has a loving husband.

Some of us maybe shocked to hear this story but this is just an everyday problem for a regression therapist to work with. The reason the client’s session was so successful was because unlike other therapy’s, she was guided back to the source of the problem and this was with the step father. Once this memory had been explored and transformed, every thing else healed itself. An analogy is a fragment of glass buried deep in your foot may cause an infection over and over again. Instead of repeatedly treating the infection, the glass (the source of the problem) is taken out and the foot heals itself.

There is always a root cause for every problem we endure and now we have this life changing therapy at our finger tips. Regression therapy has been around for over 30 years and has been used to change people’s lives completely around, not only emotionally but physically as well. You get to change your memory anyway you want, maybe you wanted to beat your attacker off, push off the man who raped you and find out his motives. Tell your partner you loved them before they passed or say sorry to the child that you keep blaming yourself for loosing. If you are ready to leave the past behind today and start to live a new tomorrow, I would be honoured to help you, Oly Nicholls